Like most writers, I find that I am able to articulate more freely on the page than in conversation – (except after a few beers, after which I am SENSATIONALLY verbose.)
After Mark died, I was unable to write a single meaningful word for over a year. I tried to keep a notebook, but the words which tumbled out into it refused to form into sentences. The novel I was writing at the time is still half finished on a memory stick at the back of my drawer.
This blog was my first attempt after eighteen long months to give shape to my thoughts. And it became like a release valve, blowing plumes of pent-up grief into the ether and receiving love and support in return.
I am proud to announce, therefore, that my memoir Me After You, based on this blog, is to be published by Virgin Books in July. The news was made public this week, and you can read about it here.
Mark was always the biggest advocate of me and my writing (with the exception, inevitably, of Mother). Me After You is a labour of love, dedicated entirely to Him.
Thanks all for reading and commenting over the past ten months. I couldn’t have done it without you.
Wife After Death 
Ridiculously pleased for you, though sad for the circumstances that brought it about obviously. Signed copies available to purchase ditect from the author??
many many thanks – signed copy is yours! XX
That’s brilliant Lucie, well done to you. I shall be getting a copy! Love to you and Bea x x x
Thanks darlin’! Much love to you too. XX
Lucie, so very pleased for you and I shall be first in line to get a copy. I’m sure Mark is still immensely proud of you. Well done xxxx
*cries*! Thank you, You. XX
Congratulations! I loved the writing blog on your blog from day one and look forward to reading your memoir. Bises x.
I love reading yours too, merci mille fois…X
There’s an internet meme based on the dialogue of a character from a video game. One of the best known quotes begins as such; “When life gives you lemons, don’t make lemonade – make life take the lemons back! Get mad! I don’t want your damn lemons, what am I supposed to do with these? Demand to see life’s manager….”
Congrats on shoving those lemons up that manager’s butt. Well done! ❤
PS
Maybe you should send life's manager a signed copy of your book when it's published.
you always come up with something totally quirky, yet absolutely spot on! Thank you for that. Here’s to continued lemon shoving…X
Well and truly deserved. Lots of love. X
Much love. X
Lucie, Am absolutely delighted for you. Well done. Hang in there kiddo!
Many thanks Deb, that means a lot XX
Chuffed for you, I have always felt just a little bit better after reading your blog, knowing I am not the only one broken hearted xx
Lovely, supportive comment, many thsnks, I’m glad some of what I rattle out resonates and helps in some way. Much love. X
Well done to get a book published! I’m sure it will be a great help to those people in the future who find themselves in similar circumstances. I look forward to reading it.
Thanks so much Dyrham. I hope the book will be of help to others – writing it has been immensely helpful to me, especially in terms of seeing how far I have actually come. X
dear Lucie,
all you have been through, all you have so generously provided in sharing your story on your blog that has resonated with so many of us, given us comfort and insight, and the reassurance we are not alone has been such a gift. and now your memoir will be helping legions more through this ridiculous and life-altering path we never wanted to walk. I know your Mark is so proud of you, and that he has been and will continue to be your shiniest guiding light. you said that Mark was always your biggest advocate (and your Mother, too) of your writing; seems as though he’s come through for you big time with such inspiration and love. i am so looking forward to reading your book! savor the joy of accomplishment, dear Lucie, a goal well met.
much love and light,
Karen xoo
Just stumbled upon your blog from another one – love how that happens. Congratulations on the book deal – how exciting. From one widow to another, I look forward to reading more.
Hi Tricia – many thanks for stumbling, always good to find a kindred spirit out there in the ether. I hope we keep in touch. X
Stunned! Wow! Well, then, congratulations, certainly! I wish you great success with your debut! Wow!
With gratitude, Morguie. X
Talent obviously runs in the family!
How outrageously talented you are.
Rach in Oz x
Heh heh!
Your astounding writing has made a beautiful tapestry of a tragedy. It is wonderful to see your talent recognised.
Many thanks for your supportive comment Vickie – and for sticking with me and continuing to read! X